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"A family based in North London seeks an exceptional and skilled tutor to guide their smallest child on his initial journey to becoming an British gentleman."

When reading this advertisement, you might easily miss the phrase "beginning" as just a turn of phrase.

However, it may be the most significant element of this unusual position posting, as it aims to recruit a teacher for a 12-month-old.

Hundreds of responses have now been received since the unidentified family published their call for the highly paid tutor, who needs to be "someone very special".

Over the last few weeks, the post has attracted attention across the media, with many questioning why?

Innovative Idea

The CEO, CEO and founder of an education consultancy, which is assisting the family in their hunt, stated that in spite of first doubt, he considered the idea "far sighted", and "innovative".

When he met the family, he mentioned they recognized the atypical aspect of their request, and how young their son is.

But, they clarified that they "were unwilling to delay any longer" to engage a tutor, as they had waited until their firstborn was five, and by that stage "cultural conditioning had already set in".

But what does the family indicate by "cultural bias"?

It's "everything", the expert answered. "The way you eat, how you speak".

He said the firstborn had adopted "extremely delicate, unspoken signals" from the family, and had assumed their cultural ways. The family explained to Adam they did not want history to recur with their younger child.

The intention: To hire a British tutor, who should speak with standard English accent, to guide the baby from day one.

Natural Absorption

"A lot of the development at the outset here is rather osmotic," stated the expert.

It's by means of this natural absorption that the family are expecting the child will adopt the English characteristics they wish to instil.

The consultant noted the tutor must be an individual who attended "the right kinds of schools – comparable categories of schools as the family plan to send their son to".

"The educator just has to be the right kind of person, they'll be performing things they don't even know they're doing, just naturally," he commented.

Money No Object

The family explained to him the chosen tutor should ideally also have familiarity of or passion in equestrian activities, alpine skiing, artistic pursuits and music so as to shape the child in a wide range of passions.

Furthermore though, he said the family hoped the tutor to sign up the child on a selection of lessons so the child would be "horseback riding and starting an musical instrument by the time they are approximately three years old".

In the family's perspective, guiding their son develop into a "UK sophisticate" will lead to accomplishment and provide access.

"For all the advantages and disadvantages of that, because it's definitely a status symbol," he comments.

However, notwithstanding all this tutelage in "UK identity", would the child absorb so-called cultural bias from the multicultural family he lives with in any case?

"Absolutely", said he. "The family understand this could fail, but they've simply adopted the view of, 'why not attempt it and we'll proceed as soon as we can', because the price of it is not relevant," he stated.

Idealistic and Unrealistic

Several in the private teaching field who express these reservations.

Another CEO, CEO and founder of a tutoring service, who also offer individual instructors, wrote that "the development of adopting dual cultures, or indeed, forming one's identity, is something that must be grown into, not manufactured."

He noted that he had relocated from the Far East to the Britain at the time of childhood, and had been raised understanding and living two backgrounds. He progressed to study at the University of Cambridge.

"The notion that an individual can function as a representation of English culture, an individual who can somehow impart the qualities of a UK sophisticate onto a infant child, strikes me as idealistic and impractical," he stated.

"Based on my background, employing a quintessentially UK tutor from early childhood will will not necessarily achieve the goal they want.

"I never had such a tutor, and yet I have been lucky enough to experience numerous of the situations they desire for their son."

He added: "The reality is, personal identity can not be imposed from the outside influences; it must be embraced, and it must be internally driven."

Purchasing UK Culture

Naturally, English culture is something the CEO hopes can be educated – and commercialized.

"I believe the reality that the international society regards us in this respect is something that we should be cherishing|valuing|appreciating